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BlackPearl
Me too.

posted by bel_1965 on June 21, 2006 at 8:38 PM | link to this | reply

bel_1965,
I think we're all searching for answers that may never come.  I just pray more.  I'm sure that will sound silly to some, but I do it anyway.

posted by BlackPearl1 on June 21, 2006 at 7:00 PM | link to this | reply

Bel
The news of their deaths was heartwrenching and I will also keep these boys and there families in my prayers and all the men/woman who are bravely serving their country.

posted by BrightIrish on June 21, 2006 at 9:34 AM | link to this | reply

Taps
There is nothing good in this story to be found anywhere. 

posted by bel_1965 on June 21, 2006 at 9:19 AM | link to this | reply

Bel, this has just made me sick.

posted by TAPS. on June 21, 2006 at 9:12 AM | link to this | reply

bel_1965...
Heartbreaking.

posted by jacentaOld on June 20, 2006 at 7:35 PM | link to this | reply

Passion
I wish I knew how to remove myself from these things emotionally, I just can't.

posted by bel_1965 on June 20, 2006 at 7:16 PM | link to this | reply

Very sad news...I couldn't listen to the whole report either!

posted by Passionflower on June 20, 2006 at 6:56 PM | link to this | reply

Bel,
I hear you.  It is too much. 

posted by Blanche. on June 20, 2006 at 6:18 PM | link to this | reply

Blackcat
I am too.  Unfortunately, this is the norm for us.  Iraq will always be very personal.  I generally avoid it all these days for that reason, but this one is too much in our face.

posted by bel_1965 on June 20, 2006 at 6:17 PM | link to this | reply

Blanche
I honestly can't imagine.  My heart hurts today for all of them.

posted by bel_1965 on June 20, 2006 at 6:15 PM | link to this | reply

I avoid the news a lot also... it's all bad and if we internalize every
story, it can eat away at us.  I'm very glad that Carl is home.

posted by -blackcat on June 20, 2006 at 6:14 PM | link to this | reply

Bel, I just saw your post here.
I couldn't really read the details. I had a bad feeling on this, too.  My heart goes out to the parents and family of those two soldiers.  How are they supposed to cope with this?

posted by Blanche. on June 20, 2006 at 5:59 PM | link to this | reply

Thank you Maggie.

posted by bel_1965 on June 20, 2006 at 5:57 PM | link to this | reply

Amen, bel.

posted by MaggieMae on June 20, 2006 at 5:56 PM | link to this | reply

Avant
I can't even begin to imagine

posted by bel_1965 on June 20, 2006 at 5:54 PM | link to this | reply

Thank you so much Whacky

posted by bel_1965 on June 20, 2006 at 5:53 PM | link to this | reply

bel
Who knows what horrors befell those two kids, or what they thought about knowing that death was imminent.

posted by avant-garde on June 20, 2006 at 5:51 PM | link to this | reply

Just adding my prayers and good thoughts.




posted by Whacky on June 20, 2006 at 5:32 PM | link to this | reply

Fourcats
There truly is not a good answer when someone you love is over there.  People would ask me last year how I was doing and there were days I wanted to scream "How the f**k do you think I am doing"  but I know they meant well and most really didn't know what else to say.

posted by bel_1965 on June 20, 2006 at 4:25 PM | link to this | reply

it is heartwrenching. my high school sweetie lives in colorado, his son is
overseas and it's all i can do to write and say, "how's things?", 'cause i'm so afraid of the answer.

posted by fourcats on June 20, 2006 at 4:23 PM | link to this | reply

Factor
Carl has admitted if he didn't have me and Pam he would be back there already.  I don't quite get what drive them to go once let alone again and again.

posted by bel_1965 on June 20, 2006 at 4:22 PM | link to this | reply

Bel, I understand.
I have only one person I know personally who has done a couple of stints there but it is enough. (I babysat  him! His mother was at my parents' house this weekend when he called her...said he was thinking about re-enlisting and going back.   Reason being...those in his command have always returned. Not so with many others. He wants to be there with the men he trained/will train. )

posted by FactorFiction on June 20, 2006 at 4:20 PM | link to this | reply

Factor
I have tried to avoid it, knowing it would have the effect on me that it has.

posted by bel_1965 on June 20, 2006 at 4:15 PM | link to this | reply

I have been following this story
in the news. It is so heartbreaking...what a waste.

posted by FactorFiction on June 20, 2006 at 4:14 PM | link to this | reply