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Manda
It was a long weekend and had some very high and very low moments.  Thank you

posted by bel_1965 on June 5, 2006 at 6:04 AM | link to this | reply

Bel,
It sure is messed up!

posted by Amanda__ on June 5, 2006 at 5:57 AM | link to this | reply

BrightIrish
I hate how this has worked out, but I will be there for Carl and be ever so proud to be standing next to him.  I am trying to remember that what I will do for my other troops will mean more than being one in a crowd of 100's.

posted by bel_1965 on June 1, 2006 at 7:01 PM | link to this | reply

It is really sad that you have to endure this but I'm sure that they know your heart and will understand why you can not be there.

posted by BrightIrish on June 1, 2006 at 6:58 PM | link to this | reply

LOL Passion
I'm a good Army and pleading the 5th on this one LOL!

posted by bel_1965 on June 1, 2006 at 12:10 PM | link to this | reply

Bel...You're not the first person to think the army
Might be run by a NON-Intelligent, Moronic Race of Beings from another Galaxy.

posted by Passionflower on June 1, 2006 at 12:05 PM | link to this | reply

Talion
There is a chance this was scheduled before they knew the date of the other unit leaving and they could not have known about the one soldier from our unit as he recently transferred.  But it still stinks!

posted by bel_1965 on June 1, 2006 at 11:55 AM | link to this | reply

bel_1965
This is a rather strange "coincidence" isn't it? It sounds as if the army doesn't want you there to say goodbye.

posted by Talion on June 1, 2006 at 11:53 AM | link to this | reply

Bel, I get that impression, so they're smart not to ask

posted by Blanche. on June 1, 2006 at 11:48 AM | link to this | reply

Nope I do not have to like it
and if asked I will give my .02 on the subject.  Unfortunately most are smart enough NOT to ask me!

posted by bel_1965 on June 1, 2006 at 11:46 AM | link to this | reply

Bel, well, yes, I suppose it is
But that doesn't mean you have to like it.  I hope it doesn't have a negative impact with your friend.  It's got to hard for her right now. 

posted by Blanche. on June 1, 2006 at 11:38 AM | link to this | reply

Blanche
Unfortunately, this is another one of those things I simply have to suck up.  My friend is going to get me the address to the post so I can send stuff, so that makes me feel a bit better.

posted by bel_1965 on June 1, 2006 at 11:36 AM | link to this | reply

Bel,
God, that just bites. 

posted by Blanche. on June 1, 2006 at 10:01 AM | link to this | reply

Passion
I know they will, but there will be one member missing at the ceremony and it will be deeply felt.  I really don't understand the thinking in this one from the Army.

posted by bel_1965 on June 1, 2006 at 8:51 AM | link to this | reply

I'm so sorry...but I know these families
Will understand...They're military families too. So they know how it goes. Just pray for them....they will need strength to say good-bye once again to their loved ones.

posted by Passionflower on June 1, 2006 at 8:50 AM | link to this | reply

Avant
I agree.  One of their own is deploying again.  My friends husband was in Iraq with Carl's unit and he is leaving again barely 6 months later.  The soldiers want to be there instead of being honored.  This is such a tough situation for all of us.  Unfortunately the military has the final word and it stinks!

posted by bel_1965 on June 1, 2006 at 7:34 AM | link to this | reply

bel
I'm very much against this strategy. It is going to do nothing but breed bitterness and resentment for all those involved.

posted by avant-garde on June 1, 2006 at 7:20 AM | link to this | reply

Katray
Thank you so very much.

posted by bel_1965 on June 1, 2006 at 7:03 AM | link to this | reply

Very difficult situation Bel
I'm sure they'll know you are with them in spirit.

posted by Katray2 on June 1, 2006 at 7:00 AM | link to this | reply

Sturgis
It would never even occur to me to be anywhere but WITH Carl, though I have to admit my heart will not be entirely there that day either.

posted by bel_1965 on June 1, 2006 at 6:30 AM | link to this | reply

Bel, darlin'...this situation simply sucks. I can see why your
heart is torn.  Thinking of you honey! 

posted by Sturgis on June 1, 2006 at 6:22 AM | link to this | reply