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Hi, Medusa,
I didn't realize that Blanche was gone. I'm also hopeful that it's just a short break. I enjoyed her posts and comments too. I'll bet she'd be glad to read that you're thinking of her. Thanks. :)
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BlackPearl1
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May 22, 2006
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To Blanche and all of you who commented on my Blanche post...THanks!!
I'm giving one big hug to all of you....since I am short on time to get back to each comment, but I do read each one and learn alot from your words...I'm sorry Blanche has gone away from Blogit...We all need to take breaks for whatever reasons. I know Blanche will continue writing and I hope all of you do, because there is such power in the written word, as they aptly say.
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MedusaNextDoor
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May 22, 2006
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posted by
MandaLee
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May 21, 2006
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a sad loss to bloggit
I'll miss Blanche and I'll miss you too. Good luck with your writing.A sa
posted by
MsVision
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May 20, 2006
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Medusa....I wasn't going to say anything, but I decided to let you know....
Blanche had me blocked for a while. I got into it with her, and she ended up blocking me. Before she left, she wrote a post about being sick and tired of "some bloggers" and their constant sly remarks against her. The post was only up for a few minutes. I just happen to be around, and read it. To my surprise, she had unblocked me. I emailed her, asking why she had a "sudden change of heart" she gave her answer, and told me, "it's time for me to move on" The next thing I know, she deleted everything. I emailed her recently, but have not gotten a response.
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May 20, 2006
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Taps....You have a good memory....I kind of recall a Mary-x...
I just wish her all the best and I hope her living accomodations remain good for her, since she was worried about housing lately...Nice to see you here..
posted by
MedusaNextDoor
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May 20, 2006
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Hi Krisles..I really hate disappointing you. And your opinion matters to me
Blogit will be here for quite some time, so I never shut a door completely, in case I get cabin fever again. I will keep in touch, although I will miss my favorite sexpot writer here, ha ha...now I mean that as a Big compliment....I used to enjoy reading Cosmopolitan way back in the late 70's and early 80's when Helen Gurley Brown was at the helm. That was when the mag was at its best. Very intelligent writing on sexual matters and the stuff really made me think or let me broaden my horizens..There had never been an honest women's mag that talked about sex and men until Cosmo...You remind me of her vision..Don't laugh. I mean that as a compliment again.
posted by
MedusaNextDoor
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May 20, 2006
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Lol, FactorFiction...thought Lensman wd like the nautical term, barnacle..
But you're a cute barnacle...How's that? I thought I was being poetic...ha ha...That's why I leave the poetry to the talented poets here...
posted by
MedusaNextDoor
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May 20, 2006
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Hi Scriber....Why would Blanche "block" you?
You don't have to go into it....I just was shocked at her sudden disappearance...She was very high in the rankings.
posted by
MedusaNextDoor
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May 20, 2006
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I don't know either.
(A)
posted by
A-and-B
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May 19, 2006
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She left before when she was mary-x and was gone quite some time before she came back as Blanche_Dubois. Surely she will return again.
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TAPS.
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Medusa
Well! This is a hell of a note!!! I'm like Lensman....waking up from another reality....and coming into a nightmare....I was just sitting down to get reacquainted and you say you're leaving???!!!! There will never be enough time....there....sorry, that's the brutal truth.....hate to break it to you youngsters, but.....it doesn't get any better. Anyway, can't you just cut back.....still stay in touch.....must you worry about rankings and such and just write less, read less, comment less, but stay in touch? Just a thought....it's what I do and I just passed my year anniversay on the 12th....will not be here as much as I was initially but have just changed my expectations..... Oh well, sorry to always be nagging you....I just don't want you to go away completely....that's all....you know what's best (I suppose..........)
posted by
Krisles
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May 19, 2006
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Oh and I was hoping the rumor of your leaving was just a rumor.
But it appears to be true! Hopefully you will be back to amuse us with your anecdotes quickly!
posted by
FactorFiction
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May 19, 2006
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Hey. Are you calling me a barnacle?!
posted by
FactorFiction
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May 19, 2006
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too bad. she had me blocked so I couldn't even say goodbye if i wanted.
posted by
scriber
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May 19, 2006
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Hi Lens....Things do change quickly over here....
But you have been stretched for time, too....And time, seems to be something we always chase after especially as we grow older....Don't worry....I can always return....Blogit is a great vehicle for writers and I've certainly stumbled upon many....You have been my favorite...and your words have captured many hearts here...I don't want to get mushy, but you get the point...And I know Blanche focus ahead and hopefully let her talent with the written word guide her....Thanks for your kind wishes...But I'm still here for a while longer.
posted by
MedusaNextDoor
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May 19, 2006
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Strat....You aren't a moron...that's for sure....
Don't worry....I will leave the window open a bit...Call it an hiatus....I can always return to Blogit...I cannot believe I have almost been here an entire year...My goodness....
posted by
MedusaNextDoor
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May 19, 2006
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FactorFiction and Burly...we grow attached to each other here....lol...
Like little barnacles stuck together tightly, there for the same purpose. Blanche and I, and GinnieB. and many others can always return here...
posted by
MedusaNextDoor
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May 19, 2006
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Pat.B....You are a gas....lol.....
I will miss you and darn it...I hope you meet a Paul Newman look-a-like....You are all a talented bunch of writers but I need extra time, too, and it seems I can't find much of it these days...so something has to go, unfortunately...Blanche was fun to get into discussions with, too.
posted by
MedusaNextDoor
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May 19, 2006
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All right, I'm a moron; I've obviously missed something else.
You're leaving too, Medusa? What's the world coming to? It's only a sabbatical, right?
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strat
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May 19, 2006
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Hi Medusa
I feel like Rip Van Winkle, waking up to find a lot of things changed. I've been so tied up, adjusting to the new training and the 12-hour shifts lately that I feel I've been off in some other world. I've only been able to sporadically pop in and out. I had no idea Blanche had left and I'm very sad to hear it. She's a big part of Blogit and I'll miss her clear-headed commentary and following her advances in life. Also, I like how she's not afraid to swim against the current. I hope her absence will just be a holiday. For sure, we all need those. As for you, well, you know how I'll feel about that.


A Medusa-less Blogit will be a reduced Blogit, and that's just a fact. It'll be like finding a familiar old place with the grass high and the windows boarded up. But you've got some great goals to pursue, so I'm with you all the way on those. And returning to blogging at some point is always an option, too...


posted by
Lensman
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May 19, 2006
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Medusa!!!
Damitol, I'll really miss you. I emailed Blanche, and now I'm worried. All my faves are disappearing. Best of luck with everything... I hope you'll come back one of these days. :)pat
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Pat_B
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May 19, 2006
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Blanche announced she was leaving on the 17th...
And you're right... It's like a hole has opened up in the middle of our lovely green place. Or am I having a senior moment. Was it someone else who said they were going? I think it was. So now I'm nonplussed. Where is Blanche? :(
posted by
Pat_B
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May 19, 2006
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Yes, I am still mad at Joe Love for getting our hopes up with his funny
stories, then dashing them back down again...
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FactorFiction
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May 19, 2006
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Medusa
I agree. I miss her too but I don't know where she's gone.
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Burly
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May 19, 2006
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Hi FactorFiction.....Poof....and she was gone...Just like that....
But I understand...Remember when Joe Love just up and disappeared, then returned again, and then....poof, he was gone without another word. Tough to say goodbye, I think....And we could all use extra time and space....I feel Blanche will carry on in a good way...
posted by
MedusaNextDoor
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May 19, 2006
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Really? I had not seen that yet...
Hmm...perhaps she will pop back in soon...
posted by
FactorFiction
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May 19, 2006
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Hello JasonScyte....How very poetic....
I'll try and remember that.....As writers, we have to learn to stand tall and not let rejection bring us down because in this business, rejection is often part of the game...Not an easy pill to swallow...
posted by
MedusaNextDoor
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May 19, 2006
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So true, Ginnie....And near impossible to seek out new voices and still
submit our own voices to our own posts. It's almost dizzying....I feel guilty when I can't comment to each person here. I try to group some of the comments writers and thank them collectively....
posted by
MedusaNextDoor
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May 19, 2006
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That's part of the problem Medusa...
...there are too many good writers on here!
posted by
ginnieb
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May 19, 2006
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Sophistie, Julia, and Mademoiselle...Time is always short it seems....
There isn't enough of it to go around....Blogit is a great vehicle but needs many moments to drive it far, so to speak....I believe Blanche's writing can take her many places....And I hope it does...
posted by
MedusaNextDoor
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May 19, 2006
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Hi Ginnie...Maybe she's following Ca88andra, You, and Me in taking time off
I can surely understand that.....It's so hard to write in the first place, and then to read other fine blogs and then to comment on top of all that, is getting tougher for me, too..
posted by
MedusaNextDoor
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May 19, 2006
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HelloFranklyMyDear....Sometimes we all need to get away...
I've been swamped here myself, trying to write, read and comment and catch up...and frankly, pun intended here, I've been falling behind and feel terribly about it...Blanche was such a soulful writer...I see good things ahead for her...
posted by
MedusaNextDoor
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May 19, 2006
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I hate it when people leave like that...waa...it's so unfair!!
posted by
Julia.
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May 18, 2006
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Don't let the glare get in your eyes; don't let the moon break your heart.
posted by
JasonScyte
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May 18, 2006
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I Hope She is Okay Too!
She was very supportive, open and honest. I liked that about her!
posted by
Sophistie
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May 18, 2006
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She just needed more free time (for other things) ...
That's what she told me, anyway.
There are two kinds of light:
The glow that illuminates,
and the glare that obscures.
posted by
Mademoiselle
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May 18, 2006
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No idea Medusa!!
I searched for her too....she's taken all her blogs off. I didn't notice anything going on...sure hope she's okay!
posted by
ginnieb
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May 18, 2006
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yes
...I think I do...
posted by
FranklyMydear1
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May 18, 2006
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Hello, B.C.....I know the Yanks are in 1st place....
The Mets, too...

Yeah, I pray Blanche is doing fine and just wanted a breather....
posted by
MedusaNextDoor
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May 18, 2006
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Hi SilverMoon....Nice to see you here....I'm not sure if I will return....
But maybe I will after a little hiatus...It is indeed fun to read so many different blogs. I have enjoyed catching up with you far away in Germany and now you will move to the states, which is terrific, also. So many awesome stories and people here...I hope Blanche is doing okay...
posted by
MedusaNextDoor
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May 18, 2006
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I think we all missed her leaving,
But what about you?? will you come back??

posted by
SilverMoon7
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May 18, 2006
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Yes, Strat...She is very talented...I just hope she's okay...
It's hard to say goodbye and maybe, sometimes it's easier to just slip away, for awhile.....By the way, Strat...you're a damned good writer, too...
posted by
MedusaNextDoor
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May 18, 2006
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sniff sniff... and she didn't even say goodbye...
posted by
-blackcat
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May 18, 2006
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I noticed that, too.
She commented on one of my blogs a few days back, that's the last I've seen. I sent her an email. Hope she's okay.
She's a damned good writer.
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strat
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May 18, 2006
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