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She obviously must feel threatened by you.
I am sorry she cannot get past her own needs
posted by
FactorFiction
on March 12, 2006 at 2:02 PM
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blackpearl,
I have to say that earlier tonight I felt so alone. So all alone in my anger, and my pain. And quite unexpectidly tonight- in the span of one short hour you and others here on Blogit have reached out to me and with compassion and grace allowed me to be hurt and angry and also made me realize that I am above this level of ignorance and ahmeful behavior. THANKYOU!!!!!
posted by
doxbaby444
on March 9, 2006 at 8:11 PM
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doxbaby444,
I can certainly appreciate your rage. People who manipulate any situation using children really bother me, too. It takes a disturbed person to sink to levels such as that, but there are so many out there, I don't think that some of them even realize the damage they're causing. Of course, others are just selfish and don't care about who they hurt. Either way, I pray you stay strong in your path to take the high road. God sees all, and I truly believe that there is such a thing as comeuppance. The world's on a wheel, as they say. What goes around will come around. It may not be for you to witness such a turn of events, but God will exact the time and place. Hopefully, this other lady will start acting out of the best interest of her child and the other children. It's truly distressing, I know, and it's hard to take the hard right, instead of the easy left. (Or in your case, the left hook, seems more preferable.) 
Bless you for using this forum, instead of acting out in a destructive manner. Take care.
posted by
BlackPearl1
on March 9, 2006 at 8:04 PM
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msbradock,
Your thoughtful and sensitive words helped to calm me- Thank You!!!!
posted by
doxbaby444
on March 9, 2006 at 8:02 PM
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Flightpath,
Thankyou for your words of encouragement. I know that I must not sink to her level. Som moments that is just easier said than done!!!
posted by
doxbaby444
on March 9, 2006 at 8:01 PM
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It's little wonder that you are so upset at her disrupting the family unit you have tried so hard to establish. Hopefully you can find a way to limit her time to do so. It sounds as though she is deliberately trying to upset your life because she is jealous or just mean-spirited. Do keep your courage and continue to strengthen your family, no matter what she does, even though it's hard for you. We all are tested in one way or another throughout our lives. All that we can do is to keep on, keeping on, in the best way that we possibly can.
posted by
reasons
on March 9, 2006 at 7:50 PM
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doxbaby,
While I do not know anything about your husband's ex-wife, I do know one thing. She will always be the mother of your husband's son. I do not have to tell you that this is a difficult battle...but I will always believe that God doesn't give us anything that we can't handle. You were put in that situation for a reason. Vent, rant and rave...here or someplace else, but cherish every moment with all of your children and love each of them every minute. Blessings...
posted by
ms_bradrock
on March 9, 2006 at 7:50 PM
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I have wondered that myself, but in this case I think that a jury of my peers would understand what she has put me through, put my husband and all the kids through, and realize that I simply had no other options!
Really- you would have to know me to know how out of charecter this is- it's just a way to release the anxiety she causes- thanks for your supportiv comment!!!
posted by
doxbaby444
on March 9, 2006 at 7:41 PM
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I always wonder that if I do something truly out of character and kill someone (like your husband's ex, who seems to be a horrible person) if I would be convicted, simply because I would normally not do something like that and they (the victim) was a horrible person anyway.
posted by
_the_staggering_genius_
on March 9, 2006 at 7:35 PM
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