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Thanks for writing about your situation with your child and the father. I agree that it may be better for your child for the father not to be in your life.
posted by
kidnykid
on December 27, 2005 at 11:13 AM
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Think of Self and Daughter
I have not been in your situation yet believe that if he is showing this type character, it may be better for you to understand that he may not choose to be in either of your lives and that it also may be better to focus on the things that you mentioned that you have to be thankful. Since you mentioned that you go to church, God has forgiven you. Do not waste time and energy thinking of things that may appear vindictive or using emotional blackmail. He will not be won over in that manner.
Go about your life, embrace your family, friends, and church members and trust that God will have someone better for you and your daughter. God bless you!
posted by
Dr_JPT
on December 23, 2005 at 8:37 PM
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tigerprincess
I agree. He could have changed plans. Better yet, if he had told me that he was scheduled to go out of town yesterday, I would not have suggested today as the pick up day. He deliberately didn't tell me what his plans were, that way, he has an excuse. He can say 'well, at least I asked to see her but you didn't get back to me in time'. It's so lowly and evasive, it's sickening.
posted by
missjohn316
on December 23, 2005 at 8:09 PM
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He really is a rat if he cant arrange his travel plans to allow for seeing his daughter!
posted by
tigerprincess
on December 23, 2005 at 7:39 PM
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thank you, everyone
Your comments and best wishes have been wonderful. I didn't realize that this blog would be so therapeutic for me. When I joined Blogit last Sunday, I was looking to revive my writing instead I ended up writing about this personal stuff. Thank God for anonymity and again thank you all. Merry Christmas, Happy Hanukkah, Happy Holidays!
posted by
missjohn316
on December 23, 2005 at 6:42 PM
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I'm sorry things didn't work out...but there is a reason for everything. Unfortunately he will learn to regret his decision in time. I can tell you are very strong and will make a great life for you and your little angel...take care and enjoy the holidays...
posted by
cling
on December 23, 2005 at 4:20 PM
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Sorry!
You must be dissapointed. Stay strong..Merry Christmas.
posted by
meeshe4
on December 23, 2005 at 5:36 AM
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Maybe another time. Interesting developments in your family life.
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posted by
A-and-B
on December 23, 2005 at 5:13 AM
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MMMMMM HMMMMMMM!
posted by
homegirl
on December 22, 2005 at 7:31 PM
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