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Avant
You're certainly welcome...however, to be honest, the posting was really what I'm in the middle of learning, myself.  Glad that it provided something positive for you.  (personal comment time...you've got NOTHING to be "ashamed" of.  Being an EMS is a wonderful gift..and you've done an outstanding job over the years.  Don't beat yourself up.  You'll proceed forward with wonderful success...2006 is going to be a great year for you!).

posted by ravencat18 on December 18, 2005 at 3:15 PM | link to this | reply

ravencat
As usual, your lesson was meant directly for me. I was despondent yesterday, thinking, 'God, I'm 41 and what do I have to show for it?' My brother's a pediatrician, my sister's a CPA, and married to a Cardiologist, and so on. Here am I, tired of EMS and wanting to do something else. I've worked so hard on studying grammar, learning words, honing my insight and I'm having trouble even getting a book published.

Your quotes made me realize that I need to pick myself back up and try some more. Thank you and I hope you have a wonderful weekend.

posted by avant-garde on December 17, 2005 at 6:25 PM | link to this | reply

Quirky
Thank you for visiting my posting.  Glad you liked the last quote (thought that was a very good one, myself).  You're absolutely right...we just have to accept that what's happened has happened, and move forward.  (and strive for better decisions in each moment that they occur).

posted by ravencat18 on December 16, 2005 at 3:19 PM | link to this | reply

Sannhet
Thanks for your comments...I was venting a bit, I guess.  (wasn't beating myself up too much...at least, I didn't think I was)...was just getting ready for the coming year.  I do appreciate your comments though! 

posted by ravencat18 on December 16, 2005 at 3:16 PM | link to this | reply

I have similar regrets but you know, I try not to focus on them too much because you can't change the past,only accept that it is what it is...and move forward. I like that last quote.

posted by Julia. on December 16, 2005 at 12:06 PM | link to this | reply

Raven -
I don't know. Family communing is a two-way street, so don't be too hard on yourself. I can't always get to see my family as much as I would like, so I find surrogates to love in the mean time.

posted by sannhet on December 16, 2005 at 10:53 AM | link to this | reply