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Thank you so much kiddo ....
Cancer is awful. Sorry about your phone situation.

posted by Dark_Dreamer on December 18, 2005 at 9:31 PM | link to this | reply

you... I can't type much, and my phone is getting yanked
tomorrow, but I just wanted to tell you I know what your going through.  I watched my mother die, in my Grandmothers living room.  Cancer.  Her last days were horrible.  Bed sores, her face knowing she was dying.. , death.  My heart is with you,  and my prayers, and my wishes for you to find some peace...

posted by Kiddo75 on December 18, 2005 at 9:07 PM | link to this | reply

OFFBEATS.....
Thank you for the support. I forgot how awsome it is to have people looking out for one another :)

posted by Dark_Dreamer on December 17, 2005 at 8:17 PM | link to this | reply

Dark
Just checking back in on you and your Mother. You a good daughter and a strong woman! Prayers~

posted by Offy on December 17, 2005 at 1:09 AM | link to this | reply

smartdog...
I am speechless... thank you.

posted by Dark_Dreamer on December 17, 2005 at 12:00 AM | link to this | reply

Dark...
My mother passed away just a few days ago.  She too was fighting cancer.  Words, as you know, can describe the experience about as well as a single star can illuminate the night sky.  But, produce enough of those stars, and we can at least begin to appreciate the universe of such an event.

Having just been through what you are living now, I offer you my full sympathy and empathy.

With much respect,
-smartdog 

posted by smartdog_670 on December 16, 2005 at 9:34 PM | link to this | reply

Sorry you had to return under these circumstances.  My parents are in their 80s and while I don't dwell on it, this very thing does pass through my mind from time to time.   All the best, and I'll keep reading you.

posted by Lensman on December 16, 2005 at 7:02 AM | link to this | reply

I have watched a few relatives expire. At least, there was time to bade the last goodbye. Please take care of yourself too. I'll include you in my prayers.

(A)

posted by A-and-B on December 16, 2005 at 1:39 AM | link to this | reply

Thanks to both of you...

 Queenofalot and Frankenkitty,

Thank you so much for reading and leaving your kind words. I am walking down the long hallway by my mothers side and will wave her off as she walks through that door. This is thee toughest experience I have ever faced and we will do this together. I am so so happy that she knows just how much I love her. There is no baggage to worry about ~ just pure love. Unconditional love.

D.D

posted by Dark_Dreamer on December 15, 2005 at 9:56 PM | link to this | reply

I don't know what to say,
but I sympathize with you. I was feeling sorry for myself, I suppose that's why I was supposed to read this blog. Take care

posted by Flumpystalls3000 on December 15, 2005 at 8:49 PM | link to this | reply

You are not alone
there are others that recognize your pain and suffering at this time. I have not lost my dear mother yet though I have lost many a dear friend and discovered just today that I will soon lose another. I understand your honor devotion and appreciation for your mothers great stregnth. Recently I have witnessed the strength that my own mother possesses.......something I can't remember witnessing as a child or young adult. I see it now and my mantra these days is 'if my mother can endure..so too can I.' God bless you and thank you for sharing such an intimate portrait that we all, every one of us shall someday sit for.

posted by ALWAYSALOVER on December 15, 2005 at 8:18 PM | link to this | reply

Ariala....
Oh dear ... I am soooooo sorry Ariala :( I wasn't here to support you ... Thank you for your kind words ...

posted by Dark_Dreamer on December 15, 2005 at 7:46 PM | link to this | reply

Thank you ...
Thank you love ~ for both reading me and for your support ...

posted by Dark_Dreamer on December 15, 2005 at 7:44 PM | link to this | reply

Dark_Dreamer, I'm so sorry you and your mother are going through this.

I lost my mom 7 months ago and the pain is still there every day.  My prayers are with you. 

posted by Ariala on December 15, 2005 at 7:43 PM | link to this | reply

Dark
This is so very sad, I wish I had the words to express how much I admire your strength and wonderful devotion to your Mother. God Bless you both!!

posted by Offy on December 15, 2005 at 7:40 PM | link to this | reply