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Joe
Thank you so much!

posted by Bel_ on November 3, 2005 at 9:31 PM | link to this | reply

Military_Wife
I loved this entry!!! When you discuss stuff like this, touching on other people's perspectives of having a loved one at war, then lending your own insight to the story, you're at your best!

posted by Joe_Love on November 3, 2005 at 8:06 PM | link to this | reply

Nancy
Thanks so much!  I have to write or lose my sanity!

posted by Bel_ on October 27, 2005 at 3:35 PM | link to this | reply

Maggie

You are such a sweetheart.  Carl is not one to go into a whole lot of detail.  "He's a just the facts Ma'am" kind of person. 

Thank you for your always sweet words

posted by Bel_ on October 27, 2005 at 3:24 PM | link to this | reply

Kris
Just about 5 weeks left.  YOu know I get this big silly ass grin on my face everytime I think about it, we are almost done.  Compared to where I was sitting on this date last year, you have no idea just how quickly the days are passing.  Of course, I have about 20 projects in the works that  I want done before he gets here LOL!

posted by Bel_ on October 27, 2005 at 3:22 PM | link to this | reply

MW
I hate I've been away too long....not surprised you are as centered, grounded, smart and just plain wonderful as ever....what did I ever do to deserve two daughters like that?!!  Send Carl a big hug and kiss and have him give you one back for me....the days are flying off the calendar...well, I know they aren't flying...but, in retrospect they are!  You are so right about not needing any a hero...you need your husband!

posted by Krisles on October 27, 2005 at 3:11 PM | link to this | reply

MW, they never tell you everything, even when they can, I don't think.....

I know now how sheltered my daugter-in-law, my husband, and myself were, now that my son is home from Iraq and retired.  I still don't think he tells us everything, he doesn't want to talk about it,  and it's ok.  That's what it's all about.  They do their job so well.  That's why we love them so.

You're right, the ones who boast the loudest are the biggest exaggeraters.   We just can't be so gullible and suck it all up. 

Your Carl is a fine soldier and you're a fine soldier's wife.  He does his job so well because he's got such a supportive wife (that's you) lol   

posted by MaggieMae on October 27, 2005 at 2:43 PM | link to this | reply

Glad to hear Carl is still safe.  Keep writing!

posted by Nancy-R-H on October 27, 2005 at 1:46 PM | link to this | reply

MW
It is so interesting to hear about things from your perspective. Thanks for sharing!

posted by jojostar on October 27, 2005 at 10:14 AM | link to this | reply

Reni
Carl has this habit of "volunteering" for things that make me CRAZY.  He has this thing about getting paid to do the same work as everyone else.  I told him that hte last thing I wanted was a "War Hero".  He laughed at me and said he would never be a hero.  I just want him to come home safe...the rest is irrelevant to me.  Thanks hon.

posted by Bel_ on October 27, 2005 at 9:43 AM | link to this | reply

Not wanting a war hero? That's a sign of you maturity as well.
You're both in my prayers...

posted by Renigade on October 27, 2005 at 9:41 AM | link to this | reply

Mia
LOL the sad part is that htese are MALES acting like this. 

posted by Bel_ on October 27, 2005 at 9:40 AM | link to this | reply

Brimstone
Thank you so much!!!

posted by Bel_ on October 27, 2005 at 9:39 AM | link to this | reply

Tissi
I don't envy you in the least, at least there is an end in sight with mine.  YOU my dear are a strong woman.

posted by Bel_ on October 27, 2005 at 9:38 AM | link to this | reply

Military_Wife
I guess that's why you don't find too many "girly-girls" in the military....could you imagine the drama...haha

posted by MiaElla on October 27, 2005 at 8:10 AM | link to this | reply

Military Wife

Your husband seems like a caring and understanding person. Believe me, I know plenty of men who would climb a tree to explain every little detail of an experience, (often times, exaggerated), when they could stand on the ground and keep their mouths shut.

Yourself...you seem to be a strong person. I am sure you have heard this time and again, so I won't repeat it, but you show such power and character in your words.

I do like this blog...

posted by bwFrampton on October 27, 2005 at 5:37 AM | link to this | reply

wife
with my husband being a police officer I can relate. sometimes you just don't want to know the whole truth!

posted by TissiBlake on October 27, 2005 at 4:27 AM | link to this | reply