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Joe-love
thank you Joe. I am pricisely doing just that. We've had some good heart to heart talks.  

posted by cosy on November 1, 2005 at 5:59 AM | link to this | reply

cosy
I had a friend who got divorced a couple years ago. At first, she was very hurt and hated her ex-husband. Then, after awhile, she said everything cleared up for her and she realized that she, too, was responsible for the dissolve of her marriage. She suddenly had no ill-wishes for him.

In my opinion (take it for just that, and nothing more), if you still love this man, then you need to worry more about becoming his friend again first--a true, caring friend. Open yourself to him, get to know him again, and don't pressure him for anything else.

posted by Joe_Love on October 30, 2005 at 3:36 AM | link to this | reply

cosy,

posted by jacentaOld on October 20, 2005 at 9:28 PM | link to this | reply

the more you love someone
the more it hurts when it ends. Doesn't matter how it ends. Doesn't matter whose fault it was. Doesn't matter if you haven't seen them in years. It hurts to see them again, upsets you when you see them with someone else. It hurts when you don't think they feel the same way. best of luck getting through this.

posted by _the_staggering_genius_ on October 19, 2005 at 2:52 PM | link to this | reply