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wordsmith
that was so cute...you can leave your comment anytime you'd like! Thank you for making me smile those are cute smileys!

posted by cosy on October 11, 2005 at 12:31 PM | link to this | reply

Cosy,
I hesitate about leaving comments these days because of the huge space that will follow, Upgrade your email with 1000's of emoticon iconsbut, to a certain extent, all of us do what you do. We shut away that which becomes extremely painful for us to deal with. Half the time, we think we've dealt with our issues only to find that they jump up and bite us when we least expect it.   It's natural to grieve about our losses, it only gets unnatural when we sink so deep as to forget about everything else. Take care and I'll be keeping my Eyes on you.   

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posted by word.smith on October 11, 2005 at 12:24 PM | link to this | reply

no pic wot u celbratin i am goin to my site now so u will have to
fill me in on gossip xxxx c u there xxxx

posted by mcbreeze on October 11, 2005 at 7:06 AM | link to this | reply

McBreeze
Did you get my pict? I didn't post the rest...I'll stop in at your website today, ok? Love Cosy and thank you...it hasn't quite been a celebration for me just yet...maybe soon enough...

posted by cosy on October 11, 2005 at 6:36 AM | link to this | reply

Jacenta
You always know how to make me feel better! I love you girly for that...you have a grand heart!  Thank you for looking out for me...love Cosy

posted by cosy on October 11, 2005 at 6:34 AM | link to this | reply

cosy

Congratulaions on a very heart breaking day all our love steph n mandaxx

 

posted by mcbreeze on October 11, 2005 at 6:17 AM | link to this | reply

cosy,
When there was a deep, true love that lived in our heart for someone we gave our love too, I don't think it is possible to forget how we felt once.  Regardless, of what happens, I think a part of us still loves that person for what was.........I know your going through a hard time now.  I just want you to know that I have grown to love you and care about you and I wish I could make you feel better just now.  Just remember, you are not alone.  Divorce is so final from what was, it probably puts you in a state of shock.  Life isn't always easy.  Just take that precious little boy in your arms and know you are truly blessed.   You,  as always, have my blessings for happiness and the best possible in all you do!

posted by jacentaOld on October 11, 2005 at 6:08 AM | link to this | reply

Renigade
hugs~I surely hope so

posted by cosy on October 11, 2005 at 6:05 AM | link to this | reply

Oh Cosy... Condolences...You are mourning something very real
and sad.  Congratulations...You are beginning a new chapter in your life. I know you'll do well. 

posted by Renigade on October 11, 2005 at 5:52 AM | link to this | reply

JoeLove
it definitely was a humbling experience...thank you for your wishes...love Cosy

posted by cosy on October 11, 2005 at 5:20 AM | link to this | reply

Ichi
Hugs~back

posted by cosy on October 11, 2005 at 5:19 AM | link to this | reply

My heart goes out to you
at this time, Cosy. I'm sure being in that courtroom was a very humbling experience. And, I'm sure you relived a lifetime of memories in a mere few hours, thus the confusion. I hope tomorrow finds you back to your happiness.

Joe

posted by Joe_Love on October 10, 2005 at 8:04 PM | link to this | reply

*hug*
I should have something enlightening to say to you, but fatigue and this late hour has dictated otherwise. I shall think of you in my dreams tonight, and return tomorrow for some Cosy hugs. *hug times infinity*

posted by Ichi on October 10, 2005 at 5:59 PM | link to this | reply

Silvermoon - Ariala
Thank you from the bottom of my heart....

posted by cosy on October 10, 2005 at 12:18 PM | link to this | reply

posted by Ariala on October 9, 2005 at 5:12 PM | link to this | reply

I think what you're feeling isn't unusual.  Some people rejoice, some people mourn the loss of what once was.  Stay true to yourself as much as you are able.  If you felt the need to divorce and have gotten this far, then there probably is a good reason for it.  Hold on to the truth of that.  Trust yourself. 

posted by SilverMoon7 on October 9, 2005 at 5:00 PM | link to this | reply

Ah, that's awful. You have my sympathy, if you want it....

posted by Gubby on October 8, 2005 at 9:56 AM | link to this | reply

Oh! Tender heart....

t'will be the death of me...My emotions have a bigger platform than my reasoning does.  I guess I am addicted to the rush..But , I still don't understand so much.

I went to my grampas grave once.  A man I  b a r e l y  new.  I was utterly shocked and amazed at the grief that swept through me as I stood there.  In all my days I never thought being next to a grave of someone I hardly knew would affect me like that.

I get SO confused, sometimes it is just easier to hide.  I know that it is escapism...but sometimes it's all I can do.

Maybe I got so sad cause I wanted him to be there for me when I was little.  No one looked after me except for child molesters and evil people so I grew up twisted. 

I am like a wind swept tree...shaped uniquely by an indifferent spin.

I send you all the love you send to me.  We are very much a like so I can say I know how you feel and mean it

CoSy...Stay cozy and warm and safe and be nice and gentle to yourself  ((((Cosy))))

LoVe, mysteria

 

 

 

posted by mysteria on October 7, 2005 at 12:45 PM | link to this | reply