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He deserves whatever he gets...but please think of yourself and the rest of your life.  I agree with you completely...he's a monster and everything comes back around in time...

posted by cling on September 26, 2005 at 2:40 PM | link to this | reply

Cosy - Queenofalot speaks of perhaps the only way you finally can find at least some peace for yourself.

posted by reasons on September 26, 2005 at 12:08 PM | link to this | reply

Queenofalot
your words wrung very powerful...thank you...I have a feeling we well understand each other. I hope you too have found your peace...please know I appreciated your courage to come to me...love Cosy

posted by cosy on September 26, 2005 at 12:02 PM | link to this | reply

Masky
you do more than that with your support...I took off my frustrations yesterday with a punching bag...no worries...I just don't know to what extent I'll take this...thanks

posted by cosy on September 26, 2005 at 11:58 AM | link to this | reply

WOW

I feel you, I hear you, I am you. This is not a 'haunting' come back to make your life miserable, this visit from your demon in a human's clothing with aVisa in his fist...it is a chance to make things right within you. You have a chance as an adult now to confront the man,(something far to many of us do not or cannot do...due to death or an earths distance away) confront his family (cuz I can probably bet you, he has harmed his children too.....its an evil dark family tradition) and especially confront your mother. It is a chance to let them all know that they failed you as adults, care givers and parents and friends. A time to let them know that they scared you for life, stole your youth and your sanity. HOWEVER they did not kill you.....you are much stronger than their weak pittiful agendas. You pulled yourself up out of the gutter thay rolled you in all by yourself....brushed yourself off and put band-aids on your scars that never healed.........till now,  now when you have this chance to look them all in the eye and shame them, call them on the carpet and then walk out leaving them to their sick twisted lives.............then you have won.....then you can heal And they have to live with what they have done....you've given it back to them to carry the weight of. Dump it on them and walk away.

posted by ALWAYSALOVER on September 26, 2005 at 11:49 AM | link to this | reply

Cosy
That would be very difficult. I would probably chicken out and run ( Blackcat's test confirms that). I hope you have the strength to confront this and get what you need out of it!

posted by jojostar on September 26, 2005 at 11:48 AM | link to this | reply

Cosy...

I feel compelled to reach out to you, sit you down, and let you scream your frustrations to my core.  I'm not sure what to say.  I do believe that what comes around goes around, but when we are the receivers of negative and victimizing things its SO VERY DIFFICULT to sit back and wait for fate to intervene and even the score.  Friend, I'm thinking of you and wishing you peace. 

posted by Masky on September 26, 2005 at 11:38 AM | link to this | reply