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It's not called spouse pressure
It's called
co-dependence.
posted by
Joe_Love
on August 29, 2005 at 12:43 AM
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Quirky ...
You are so wise. Next time I WILL readjust my thinking. I know I would've enjoyed my day more if I had stuck to my original plan (even without the hubby). Thanks for sharing your wisdom. My father used to say I was my own worst enemy ... sometimes it's so hard to go easy on myself.
posted by
DivineM
on August 21, 2005 at 7:02 PM
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You had a picture in your mind of the three of you going, and then he burst the picture...and you couldn't readjust your thinking...which is too bad...maybe next time you can, with a little conscious effort...but don't be too hard on yourself...
posted by
Julia.
on August 21, 2005 at 2:06 PM
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Ariala,
I feel better already knowing you can relate. And I will try to adopt your mindset on the matter ... after all, whose life am I living anyway?
posted by
DivineM
on August 21, 2005 at 10:42 AM
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Divine, I know how that goes...when hubby doesn't get excited about doing
something, it sort of robs me of my excitement. But I made up my mind a long time ago that despite what he doesn't want to do, if I DO want to do it, I will. I hope you feel better soon.
posted by
Ariala
on August 21, 2005 at 7:56 AM
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