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I can't imagine.
How awful for you!
posted by
FactorFiction
on August 9, 2005 at 3:03 PM
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Well, I can tell you he is miserable, deep down, and suffers from depression...because he is living a lie....and is not strong enough to be just who and what he is....I'd love him anyway....I still do, and will, but we will part ways once we finish raising our two children. They are 11 and 14 now, and soon will be old enough to understand the truth about why their father and I cannot live together any more. In the meantime, I walk a tightrope every day.
~Mama.Dragonfly487
posted by
Mama.Dragonfly
on August 9, 2005 at 7:40 AM
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I am still hung up on the fact that
school has started for you!! Oh, you lucky lucky gal...
Did you explain how you husband turned out to be gay someplace? I have heard this story about a friend's mom too and it completely amazes me... In her case it turned out to be very sad too 
But I of course did not ask the question I'd been dying to ask...the 'how does a man go through marriage, children, etc for years and sublimate the fact that prefers men?'
posted by
FactorFiction
on August 9, 2005 at 6:21 AM
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Welp. ., that takes care of your fears
that he was ignoring you. *grin*
posted by
Joe_Love
on August 8, 2005 at 11:07 PM
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Usual, I just don't know with him, he is hung up on the fact that I am still legally married, although my husband is gay...I do know, at least, that he is really a friend...and those are rare, and hard to find...even harder to find than lovers.....so I value this relationship, even if what we have is all we really ever have.....lots of fish in the sea! 
~Mama.Dragonfly487
posted by
Mama.Dragonfly
on August 8, 2005 at 8:08 PM
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BrightIrish, I would have to email you, too much for a 'comment'...but it is all in this blog....I am still legally married, but have come to discover I am married to a gay man...who will not give me a divorce, and I have no grounds in this state to divorce him, not without losing my kids, and this property I inherited....so we agreed several years ago to disagree.....and stay together till our children are out of school...high school, at least our girl-child...then I am out of here! And I am looking for my next 'ex'!
~Mama.Dragonfly487
posted by
Mama.Dragonfly
on August 8, 2005 at 8:00 PM
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Sounds like it's going well...
you deserve that man! Good luck to you and all of your "getting to know one another" once school starts.
posted by
UsualSuspect
on August 8, 2005 at 7:37 PM
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Hello.. Computer problems are a headache.. I enjoyed what you wrote and wish you Good Luck.. Would you like to fill in the blanks for me and tell about Captian. I don't know as much as the other bloggers do.
posted by
BrightIrish
on August 8, 2005 at 7:23 PM
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