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It happens in any and every situation. The boring, the mundane, the stink
it's all got to be redeemed.
Cheers!
Topher
posted by
itisdone
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July 30, 2005
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No deployments were involved in the unraveling of my marriage..
just absences of the hearts and a resentment of a selfish lover.
posted by
Maerdi
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July 30, 2005
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Scratch My Last Comment...
After I thought about my "suggestion" re: obligatory b.j.'s I kicked myself. The lifestyle I was proposing as a way of "fixing" what is wrong in your situation is definitely not the answer. Stupid! Stupid!
Zen
posted by
ZenLady05
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July 29, 2005
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Any chance.....
both of you might consider a secondary lover? I know it sounds wild, but it can do remarkable things for your marriage. Of course, your mind has to be open to the idea. I hate the phrase "think outside of the box" but, that's EXACTLY what you need to do here, unless of course, you would rather move away from this relationship.
Zen
posted by
ZenLady05
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July 29, 2005
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Man, I can't imagine.....if it ever gets to that I will remember this and hopefully it will give me insight on how to repair the situation.
Is there any hope the passion will come back, or are you saying it's over?
posted by
Schatz
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July 29, 2005
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Phyllis
Is there nothing more depressing than giving a blow job when you don't want to...I don't think there could be. I darn sure wouldn't do it out of guilt or anything other than passion. To hell with them, they want it, they gotta give it!
posted by
Offy
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July 29, 2005
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And not just in marriage either...mine and my exs honeymoon lasted about a month until i decided i loved her and she reciprocated....
posted by
Leafonariver
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July 29, 2005
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philly
Such a shame........those are things that keep the fire burning.
posted by
TIMMYTALES
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July 28, 2005
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It sounds kind of sad, that you feel that way. I don't think you should have to give obligatory pleasure, but it's kinda sad that's what it turns into...
posted by
Vanidad
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July 28, 2005
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blowjobs...
should only be given when the woman feels aroused by her partner...in other cases, it can be a real disgust...when no love is involved...
posted by
Marshallengraved
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July 28, 2005
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Yep... Yep... Yep...
I don't believe one should ever "ask" for pleasure. It should happen. If it doesn't happen as regularly as you want it to then perhaps you need to do a bit more to wet your partners desire whistle.
For women to just start a blowjob because they've been asked/guilted into it there is no way she is going to get turned on.
I say to any man: "If you can't get me to the point of wanting to pleasure you (and I bloody enjoy it when I do) then you don't deserve it."
That is like asking your partner to randomly cry on the spot because you need to feel closer emotionally.
posted by
phonetic_semen
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July 28, 2005
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Oh my god!
I almost cried when i read this. I'm so feeling you! I used to be that way. My significant other were screwing like 4 tiimes aday and then somewhere down the road, the honeymoon phase died off and we were barely speaking to one another. When he would suggest oral pleasure, I felt like it was a damn chore. I couldn't even get hot while doing it. What helped me? Reading porn. I kid you not! I hate the visuals becuase its so degrading, but reading about it did something else in my beings. I guess thats why i got into writing erotica, but maybe you should give it a try. Who knows, reading a little about someone else bedroom antics, might spice you up a lil' bit. Hey, if not, good luck many kisses to you from me!
posted by
SexyNaiche
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July 28, 2005
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