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So true, Queenofalot, so true!
~Mama.Dragonfly487
posted by
Mama.Dragonfly
on June 15, 2005 at 5:43 PM
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Gypsy, thanks for your comments. Maybe it will, maybe it won't....it's all about the journey, anyway!
~Mama.Dragonfly487
posted by
Mama.Dragonfly
on June 15, 2005 at 5:41 PM
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Medusa, we talkin' buckle-your-knees, breathless, inside out kisses! Oh, can he kiss! Thanks for your visit!
posted by
Mama.Dragonfly
on June 15, 2005 at 5:37 PM
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But Mama---Can He Kiss Well?
I can tell you love a good fight. Just don't push him too hard.
posted by
MedusaNextDoor
on June 15, 2005 at 4:47 PM
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I think you both know each other really well. Hope it works out.
posted by
RedHeadedGypsy
on June 13, 2005 at 5:58 PM
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Yeah it means something
to know someone better than they know themselves but in the end it means nothing.
posted by
ALWAYSALOVER
on June 13, 2005 at 5:46 PM
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Strat, I think this means that I need to be very careful not to manipulate the situation, or at least try to manipulate circumstance, creating only disaster for all involved. I seem to thrive on the drama. I really do care about this guy.
Thanks for your comments and insight! Much appreciated.
~Mama.Dragonfly487
posted by
Mama.Dragonfly
on June 13, 2005 at 11:47 AM
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The question is, what do you do now with this info?
Are you going to use this power for good? Or does it really matter?
I'm beginning to find that no matter what you know, it doesn't much matter. The love part is fairly easy, like having the flu or not having the flu. The trick is the foundations of the rest -- to respect, and like, and enjoy, and listen, and be willing to give.
Of course, I know nothing - only that I am an idiot, and a difficult one at that. So anything I say here is probably from the moon, and not to be taken as anything more useful than, say, the average urban legend.
Interesting post, Mama D!
posted by
strat
on June 13, 2005 at 10:40 AM
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Well said, Mystic...and thanks for the visit!
~Mama.Dragonfly487
posted by
Mama.Dragonfly
on June 13, 2005 at 10:28 AM
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Mama
in my experience learning how to argue constructively is a very artistic dance...when we learn that the relationship has to be the winner in the argument , not one of the 2 participants, we start to dance a little more gracefully We teach each other how to bend and sway and lean in and pull apart...in a choreographed rhythmn that eventually heals us
posted by
MysticGmekeepr
on June 13, 2005 at 10:15 AM
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Passionflower, I don't have an answer, but at least for me I think it lies somewhere in being willing to relinquish control. Being an addict, I am an excellent manipulator, mostly on a subconscious level (I write, don't I? LOL!) and I find myself forgetting that I cannot will something into being that was not meant to be.
~Mama.Dragonfly
posted by
Mama.Dragonfly
on June 13, 2005 at 10:12 AM
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Poetic, sometimes it is necessary to push the people you care about to get to truth.......which quit often reveals itself only a bit at the time, in relationships anyway. Pushing someone you care about is challenging that person to think, and to communicate. Obviously you are a very young soul.
~Mama.Dragonfly487
posted by
Mama.Dragonfly
on June 13, 2005 at 10:04 AM
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As a commitment phobe...I can understand where you're coming from
I often worry so much about whether a relationship is becoming too serious, that I forget to enjoy the relationship while I can. Don't know what to do about it though.
posted by
Passionflower
on June 12, 2005 at 9:30 PM
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There's knowing how far you can push someone
And then there's doing it...
Why would you push someone you care about?
Or maybe the real question is... do you care about him?
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Don't mind me... I throw this shit out of nowhere... I admit right here and now that I don't know anything about you or your situation and am in no way trying to judge you... I just want to make you think is all
posted by
PoeticHoneyDew
on June 12, 2005 at 9:13 PM
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