Comments on The Girls.

In regards to the comment you left in that blog stating "that sucks," it was not regarded to be just a commentary on the ending since that was all that you said and not how the author responded.  Furthermore, it is only one of several examples.  You don't know me or my history, and continually mentioning that you were molested by a cop's son is disturbing and, in no way, related to Whammie who she is.  I was simply saying to you that, geez, this situation has gotten ugly, and maybe if you didn't leave such ugly comments it might be better.  I was trying to reach out because it seems you are so very angry and hostile towards people.

I read the exchanges with Whammie, and although some of the time I don't agree with her in regards to certain things, I also see that she is joking a lot.  This melodrama of you saying she threatened your life in any real seriousness is asinine.  I have been here more than a year and seen you in these situations over and over.  I was not rude or mean, I just was saying that maybe if you were considerate about other people's feelings, they would be more considerate of yours.  That was all.  Not to mention, Whammie's sex life is not a reflection on how she does her job or how professional she is.  You continually judge her and call her names, when that is hardly Christian behavior.  It is not your job to judge, it is your god's, yet you seem to be determined to ignore that.  Discuss this with your Priest or Minister, read it in the Bible.  It is there.  I don't agree with Whammie in this case, the things she said, either, but that was never the concern.  It doesn't matter who started it, that is a child's response.  The adult ends it in an adult like manner.

I am sorry for the molestation, but you are not the only one who has been sexually assaulted here.  I am sorry you feel everyone who disagrees with you is against you.  I sincerely hope you get some psychological counseling for that, and I mean that with no ill regard, because that is not a healthy perspective.  Just a note, real friends will point out when you are doing something destructive or contradictory to what you are trying to accomplish.  I don't believe what happened to you when you were a child is remotely relevant to Whammie just because she is a police officer.  It wasn't her, so that point is moot.  She is a whore to you because she is free sexually, and if that is not your belief that's fine, but I happen to agree with being free and adventurous sexually, too.  (Although sleeping with other people's husbands is never okay in my book.)

I am not a jerk, I am a nice person.  If you want to think that with no real evidence to support that, feel free.  If you have ever read my journal blog that has been here for a year, you would know this not to be true.  I will only apologize for any misunderstanding, but I will not be bullied by you or anyone else.  Do not think this is an opportunity to start some big drama like the one with Whammie, because it's not.  I will not participate.  I'm here to expand my writing skills and have made a wonderful network of friends.  I will not stoop to a name calling exchange in comments.  Obviously, leaving that comment for you was a bad idea, since it was not taken in the spirit in which it was intended.  But, it seems you would rather shut people out and hear the worst.  I am a Buddhist, and a pacifist in such matters.  I believe in reaching out, community, good will.  I was trying to show you that any of the people here would be friends with you if you would only not judge them so harshly, be so cruel. 

I wish you luck and light.