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His body is not him.
He is spirit in the light and he has gone ahead. When you pass, many many years from now he will be waiting to tell you not to be afraid.
Manboy
posted by
man-boy
on February 13, 2005 at 11:10 AM
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Deep thoughts and emotions. I don't think that he would want you to be so sad. You must continue on with life and someday, you will meet up with him again.
posted by
ThomasFranklin
on February 12, 2005 at 9:55 PM
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Mia I understand, but you cant blame yourself, you havent wronged him but tried to help and I know the feeling of guilt is painful., but you have to remember him in the best memories both of you shared, and not what happened later on... {{{hugs}}}
posted by
Tanoolicious
on February 12, 2005 at 3:43 PM
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Hey there, Mia. I know that death throws up a lot from the past for us to
look over. Like a series of waves, one thing comes after another and another...but they start to fade out...and eventualy it's the good memories that stay and make us glow inside... Thinking of you...
posted by
void-is
on February 12, 2005 at 8:20 AM
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I can't imagine what you must be feeling, Mia. My heart goes out to you sweetie. Anything you need from a friend at a distance....
posted by
Gheeghee
on February 12, 2005 at 12:19 AM
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Mia
Maybe he's watching out for you now
posted by
ladyofshalott
on February 11, 2005 at 7:22 PM
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My tarot says he is not
alone in the dark. Did you see 'Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind'? If not, it was a very good movie about memories. I wish you the very best MiaElla, I can't even express how sad I am for you. Take care :)
posted by
Flumpystalls3000
on February 11, 2005 at 6:52 PM
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Mia, if it's possible that he's watching you now,
I think he's prefer to know that you were taking comfort from the good times. Although, I've said that I also realize that self blame is a part of the grieving and healing process. I went through this when my mother died. I wondered if I could have done more, or differently and whether she was at peace. Time will heal your family and yourself. You'll feel like you lost a part of yourself for a long time to come, but the pain does and will lessen.
posted by
word.smith
on February 11, 2005 at 5:03 PM
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Mia,
You never failed your brother...You were there for him when your father couldn't be. You will be with him again. Peace be with you.
posted by
lovelyladymonk
on February 11, 2005 at 4:07 PM
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sweetie....
he will be in a beautiful resting place......its nice to remember the great times you had...I really know how you feel...but he wont feel like you failed him....
posted by
_Symphony_
on February 11, 2005 at 3:03 PM
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