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Jemmie
These are very early days yet .... take care

posted by beachbelle on January 5, 2005 at 2:32 PM | link to this | reply

There is no way to ease the pain Jemmie

You are doing the best thing Jemmie, taking one day at a time.

The wonderful thing about the closeness you have (not had, have) with your Dad is that he WILL always be with you. It won't ever be good enough to only communicate with him spiritually, but it may be a tiny comfort that you can do that. It's a bittersweet situation, you wouldn't miss him so much if you didn't grow up with that connection, but think how many memories you have to cherish of your years together ?

You are such a gifted writer, maybe it would help to start a journal to him, writing all those anedotes and things you want to tell him now.

posted by DivineDiva on January 4, 2005 at 6:12 PM | link to this | reply

Poeticspoken

This is true.  However, on my lowest days, even the good memories bring on sadness when I realize that I'll never make any new memories with my Dad.

Thank you so much for your comment! *hug*

posted by Jemmie211 on January 4, 2005 at 1:41 PM | link to this | reply

Symphony

I have only one person I feel I can really talk to about my pain since she often feels the same way.  Most everyone else I know haven't felt this kind of loss and get awkward or go silent when I try to talk to them about it.

Thank you so much for thinking of me.  It really means a lot. 

posted by Jemmie211 on January 4, 2005 at 1:40 PM | link to this | reply

It takes time for pains to heal.
I find that talking about good memories help. One day, everything won't look so bad.

posted by poeticspoken on January 4, 2005 at 9:45 AM | link to this | reply

you will never get over it.....but you will learn to accept it
time is the biggest healer....greiving has so many emotions ....do you see a councellor?...or have anybody to talk it out with.......keeping him a live by talking about him helps too.....thats what my family does...and it numbs the pain a little more....take care....I be thinking of you

posted by _Symphony_ on January 4, 2005 at 9:36 AM | link to this | reply

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