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JanesOpinion
Thanks J.O. Sometimes I feel like I won't be able to make it.  It is when I get sweet notes from people like you, I feel I can.  Passionflower says I can make it because I am strong and I have already made it thus far and I am still alive.  You guys are so nice to me.  I send you lots of love...

posted by mysteria on December 31, 2004 at 4:01 PM | link to this | reply

Mysteria, your words are so poignant and full of pain. And your art work is so beautiful.  Keep on keeping on!

posted by JanesOpinion on December 31, 2004 at 12:18 PM | link to this | reply

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posted by mysteria on December 30, 2004 at 11:30 AM | link to this | reply

Just this. The biggest thing I had to "accept" was I did not cause the bad people to hurt me. They did it, I did not cause it. I had to forgive myself - as weird as it sounds. I had to turn the blame from me to the bad people. I had to accept the fact that it damaged me and effected my life for several years. The rage, hurt, distrust and all the dispicable feelings you have will pass once you continue to kill the demons that are in your mind. The last thing you must know is you are NOT responsible for their actions. They are. Keep fighting. it won't be easy nor fun. But you can reach the other side. I have. God Bless you.

posted by Entrepreneur_Maker on December 30, 2004 at 11:06 AM | link to this | reply

Entrepreneur_Maker
It is this kind of thing I need to hear and keep on affriming the truth by consistantly dragging the monsters into the light.  Thanks so so much for your encouragement.  You know to give the way you do is likened to an angel.  Anything you could share with me would be appreciated.  Luv   mysteria

posted by mysteria on December 30, 2004 at 10:54 AM | link to this | reply

Dragging them out and exorcising them is the right thing to do. Speak from personal experience, its the hardest and the most cleansing thing you can do. It wasn't your fault. Your not bad. I know, because I have been where you are. Keep digging it out and it will all eventually be gone.

posted by Entrepreneur_Maker on December 30, 2004 at 9:01 AM | link to this | reply

passionflower
lovely lust lotus...It is true, it is most effective to drag the seething monsters into the place of light as they over time lose their power.  It is amazing how excruciatingly painful it is.  It is surgery without anesthesia.  You are so sweet and kind to offer up your support.  I thank you kindly with all my heart and please know that it means the world to me  mysteria

posted by mysteria on December 30, 2004 at 8:23 AM | link to this | reply

Hi, I know how difficult it must have been for you to write this. But facing the darkness is sometimes the only way to deal with it. I think you should continue to write it all down until you feel purged of the all the evil, anger, sickness and whatever else there is in there.

It's not something that happens over night, but at some point, perhaps you can experience some peace in your heart. Perhaps your mind will let go of all those ugly memories that haunt you. Good luck. You've already shown alot more courage than most folks.

You're a wonderful person. You didn't do anything wrong. You're not at fault in any way. Probably the only possible way you're at all to blame is that you most likely have a gentle, quiet personality.  Often, sexual predators look for victims with a calm, gentle nature because they are the most compliant and offer the least resistance.

If you want to talk one on one, email me.

posted by Passionflower on December 30, 2004 at 8:13 AM | link to this | reply