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wow I am so sorry..............

I did not know............I am here for you...............I have lost many to death..............please email me we can talk..............take care..........I be thinking of you

 

posted by _Symphony_ on October 19, 2004 at 12:50 PM | link to this | reply

I am sorry for your loss Diva~ Getting your feelings out and acknowledged is a great place to start.

posted by Laroux on October 18, 2004 at 6:36 PM | link to this | reply

Chai latte is a good start
You must somehow enjoy the memories but also put one foot ahead of the other. Good luck.

posted by beachbelle on October 18, 2004 at 5:07 PM | link to this | reply

remembering the good things

Thanks Symphony for your kind words. What is so difficult about my relationship is that I lost him to death, not because our relationship went bad. We were so good, in so many ways. Soulmate seems such an overused word but that is truly what we were. He loved me unconditionally, supported me without question. Losing him when things were so right for us is so hard to bear.

posted by DivineDiva on October 18, 2004 at 4:54 PM | link to this | reply

yes your right it is still pain

you cant help who you fall in love with...........emotions and feelings are a very powerful thing

all I can offer you is............keep yourself busy......and write a list on all the things that were wrong about the relationship...then everytime you feel that overwhelming feeling read back what you read....even if you write it here for you to look back on..............I wish you luck I know that this is very hard for you.....I relate very much

posted by _Symphony_ on October 18, 2004 at 5:14 AM | link to this | reply