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Ann,
Three love is to serve. Two love is from heaven.
posted by
kingmi
on October 21, 2004 at 8:49 PM
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Thanks.
To love ,
is to serve.
Ann.
posted by
A-and-B
on October 21, 2004 at 8:46 PM
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Ann,
The essence of love
Is not really there at all
It's like a server
(practicing my haiku's)
posted by
kingmi
on October 21, 2004 at 8:42 PM
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Good list
in a gist.
Ann
posted by
A-and-B
on October 21, 2004 at 7:06 PM
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kingmi - excellent! I wish I had read this some 12 years ago...
posted by
Ca88andra
on October 16, 2004 at 9:53 PM
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Thanks, Innkeepers and Redlunar,
I'm trying to keep my vebosity to a minimum of redundancy! You guys are sweet!
posted by
kingmi
on October 16, 2004 at 1:04 PM
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Good advice...
posted by
theinnkeepersdaughter
on October 16, 2004 at 1:01 PM
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Kiingmi
excellent post! I've tried it and it works!
posted by
redlunar
on October 16, 2004 at 2:50 AM
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Chelly75,
Had a dud of my own. Did the same stuff. Still does only one difference. She's not there any more. I lovingly detached, having had lots of practice lovingly detaching from my regular family. I guess you could say I'm lovingly detached from everybody. Hope you can work it out. The kids are worth it. Mine are with me 24 / 7. They seem to be doin OK!
posted by
kingmi
on October 16, 2004 at 1:13 AM
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Kingmi, I swear, I have used the word "contingency" 3 times today!!
I lie not! lol.. And everytime, I had to explain it. TO THE SAME PERSON. I totally agree with everything you stated. And (Dr. Phil freak over here) I try to do the same over here. It is very hard sometimes with my little boy who is 4. Jessi, my little girl, no problem (other than her stealing my chocolate). But , the problem, is how is a child supposed to learn squat when they have a dumbass for a parent. I did a HORRIBLE job picking a father, and when he is around, he trys to get "back at me" by not ever even telling them to stop anything that they are doing at the time.(fighting, screaming, running in the house) He sat and watched my little boy fall off the table, and just stood there while he screamed. I had to run from the other side of the house and scoop him up. Then I got accused of being "overprotective" and "supermom". He had a huge knot and a black eye. When you deal with morons like that, try telling them about teaching important life building tools that they so desperatley need to succeed in life. ANd in the school system, there are more parents out there like my dud than you think..
posted by
Kiddo75
on October 16, 2004 at 12:14 AM
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