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forgot this in last comment tg
posted by
tbgroucho
on September 3, 2004 at 8:38 PM
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TG...
Encouragement is the best support out there. Thank you!!
posted by
daisysface
on September 3, 2004 at 8:23 PM
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daisysface
you seem a "tough broad" -- and I bet from how your son is, you've done a damn good job. I know this is more encouragment than support, but I'll toss in a little admiration and hope it helps. tg
posted by
tbgroucho
on September 3, 2004 at 8:17 PM
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you are doing brilliantly
and you will carry on doing things brilliantly............well done and good luck, I wish you all the best
posted by
_Symphony_
on September 2, 2004 at 12:53 PM
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Hang in there sweetie - I know it is hard. Keep faith in yourself and remind yourself daily of the positives. Your baby will be a beautiful addition to your family and you will continue to be a wonderful mother.
posted by
MariVye
on September 2, 2004 at 12:49 PM
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Give yourself a break.
During my first pregnancy, I was married to a man who travelled 275 days a year, so I was virtually alone with a second income. Trust me, the money didn't make up for doing it alone. My point being marriage doesn't ensure happily ever after or even sharing. I also had full responsibility for everything. Once we divorced, I had the same responsibilities with less money. Actually, it was a lot easier that way. I knew who to depend on. Me.
I had twins 11 years after my first. I find I have a lot more patience this time around and fewer expectations. Hopefully, you will find that true too. It may feel like nothing changed, but I am willing to bet you have, so this baby will be a new experience. Try to stop worrying and enjoy it.
As far as giving your oldest everything, money or no money, I don't buy into that. I believe it is good for children to learn to work for what they want. I know a lot of people with large bank accounts who agree with me. So, even though you can't buy him what he wants, you can support him in learning to do it himself. That is important too. And, there is no reason he can't work and go to school. A lot of people do it that way. It isn't easy, but I bet he will appreciate his education a whole lot more than some of the kids who get a free ride.
Good luck.
posted by
Whim
on September 1, 2004 at 3:03 PM
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You're doing a wonderful job.
posted by
TARZANA
on September 1, 2004 at 2:42 PM
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