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Angiek, Thank you so much , You are so right!
posted by
Melodystar
on August 16, 2004 at 10:40 AM
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Oh Melodystar!
Double standards are not okay, ever! Not fair, and very disrespectful. He is treating you like ornamental property. You are not wrong. I've found that jealous people, like my father, tend to be that way because they do devious things themselves and assume everyone is just like them. People who can't be trusted, don't trust anyone. Just my thoughts, I hope you work it out
posted by
Flumpystalls3000
on August 16, 2004 at 9:46 AM
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Michellerenee143, he didn't want me hanging around just Men. He was afraid that they would do something or say somethin he might not like. Thnaks for reading.
posted by
Melodystar
on August 14, 2004 at 9:57 AM
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Kindness goes a long way, but there's a difference between being kind and being a push-over. I wouldn't have cared what his reasons were for not wanting you to go to the business meeting. I would have gone anyway, and if it caused a problem, or threatened the marriage, then he either would have had to shape up or ship out. He should understand that you need to be more than just his wife. You need to have an identity of your own. I hope it works out.
posted by
michellerenee143
on August 13, 2004 at 6:47 PM
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Melody--you are right in your defense of yourself; but go more than half
way with him; it might help to be a bigger person. love you whatever. Scriber
posted by
scriber
on August 13, 2004 at 8:29 AM
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I agree, I am over it now , had to vent!
posted by
Melodystar
on August 12, 2004 at 7:45 AM
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Melody
In answer to what I think. I think it was ridiculous that he forbade you to attend your own business lunches. Work is work.
posted by
Wildwoman_Laloba
on August 12, 2004 at 7:42 AM
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