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Go and reconcile with your brother
I found your article about reconciling with your brother in private to be very interesting.

However one thing you said in the article surprised me.

You said ".. and show him his fault".

It seems to me that if you have uppermost in your mind, that you need to show him his fault,
you will almost certainly fail to reconcile.

I suggest that the pre-condition for reconciliation is to learn from your brother why he does not feel that he is at fault, and seek a common understanding. 

Perhaps he will himself decide he was at fault, and lean toward your way of viewing.

Perhaps you will surprise yourself by discovering he really was not at fault.

Kermit


posted by Kermit1941 on August 31, 2011 at 3:45 PM | link to this | reply