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Don't make me laugh.</title><link>http://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/roofpig138294/227250</link><description>As Valentine's Day approaches, I feel I should share my feelings on this most mushiest of holidays. I hate it. I think it's stupid, silly, and puts pressure on relationships. Katie feels the same way. We don't celebrate it. Actually, we wait until after Valentine's Day and then buy chocolates and...</description></item><item rdf:about="http://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/roofpig138294/225433"><title>A sort-of anniversary</title><link>http://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/roofpig138294/225433</link><description>Two years ago today (technically tonight), I proposed to Katie. Did I ever tell you the story? No? Well, pull up a chair. It's actually nothing all that special. It's embarrassing, really. Katie and I had previously discussed marriage, so we knew it would happen. 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