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Really!</title><link>http://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/notapoet/619300</link><description>(If you are mystified by the subject of this post it might pay to scroll down to the previous post, and to click on the comments before reading further) It shouldn't be necessary to point out that President Obama, like John McCain, spent nearly half of those two years campaigning for and winning...</description></item><item rdf:about="http://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/notapoet/619221"><title>What's up with Sarah Palin?</title><link>http://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/notapoet/619221</link><description>Eight months ago she was campaigning hard as the VP candidate on the Republican ticket. Now she is resigning as governor of Alaska barely half way through her term of office, and no one seems to know why. 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