http://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/fairypower/After enduring 10 years as an emotionally abused spouse, I filed for divorce. I found out that my ex had stolen my emails, blogs, creative writings and had even enlisted his brother and boyfriend in his antics. Reinforcing my conviction that I needed "out" of this cesspool called a marriage.hourly12000-01-01T12:00+00:00http://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/fairypower/461901Sometimes I can't believe that I care if you live or die. After all those years of abuse and you still want to drag out the torture. Why can't you let me have the divorce? Are you afraid you won't be able to quickly find a replacement to abuse?? Or is it that you had me so well trained that I hid...http://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/fairypower/459657Abusers count on the fact that most victims are insecure, terrified and ashamed. They don't tell anyone what they are going through. Often they are convinced that it is their fault that they are being abused. In my case I was embarrassed that I had married this man in the first place. Of course...http://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/fairypower/459512I finally finished moving out of the rental house that I have been living in since I decided to move out of the marital residence. I told the judge that I wanted to move out of the house, I have nothing but fear in that house. Well that isn't exactly true I also have pain. I have never recovered...http://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/fairypower/459286At night when I would lay down I couldn't fall asleep. My mind would be spinning around and around. There was nothing comfortable to focus on. Every thought that would pop into my head was connected to fear. I was afraid of dying. I was afraid of what he would do the next time he had to choose...http://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/fairypower/456599It feels so comfortable sitting down at my computer and writing. For the first time in years I don't have to worry about someone stealing my password, my blogs, or my poetry. I often wonder how an adult decides to violate their spouses privacy and snoop. It seems to be a very low form of...http://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/fairypower/455776I haven't been able to blog for quite awhile, my ex stole the computer. He took it to his boyfriend's favorite computer store to have all of my data stolen off of it. It was quite easy to figure out what happened, he left the invoice written in his handwriting on the bar in the kitchen. I also...