http://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/Myth_of_Sexual_Addiction/A Frank discussion of the addictive and not so addictive qualities of Sex.hourly12000-01-01T12:00+00:00http://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/Myth_of_Sexual_Addiction/507047Emailed by Dr. Azfar Hussain from Karachi, Pakistan 1. Scientific tests find that when women make love, they produce double amounts of the hormone estrogen, which make hair shiny and skin smooth. 2. Gentle, relaxed lovemaking reduces your chances of suffering dermatitis, skin rashes and...http://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/Myth_of_Sexual_Addiction/368767Did you ever come to the point in your life, where, casually looking back on your life, you just had to surrender to the view that your parents were wrong sometimes. It feels like i may be coming to that point shortly as I remember, with you as audience, my first experience of "making love". (Oh...http://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/Myth_of_Sexual_Addiction/211425You can finds more of these on my Blog, Rumi and Other Mystic Poets So here is one of my favorites from Hafiz: Today, The Vegetables would like to be cut By someone who is singing God's Name How could Hafiz know Such top secret information? Because Once we were all tomatoes, Potatoes, onions or...http://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/Myth_of_Sexual_Addiction/202862There is only One Lover, for sure, and That One is the Author of Love and Love Itself. But are there many moments of varying length or only One moment, Now in an infinite variety of presentations?http://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/Myth_of_Sexual_Addiction/198594Because it seems never the same and always the same. Now, always is! This is the moment, the only moment.http://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/Myth_of_Sexual_Addiction/198581It is only now and in here that you can meet The Presence. Go with in. Be here now. Report your inner experience from headache to bliss. That is how it goes in meeting The Presence!http://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/Myth_of_Sexual_Addiction/195613I believe we are better understood as God having a human experience, rather than humans seeking after God. Interestingly, this can not be proved by reason and logic....it must be experienced. If you buy my proposition, then you also must know that to find God, you must go within. Your most...http://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/Myth_of_Sexual_Addiction/193750Anything that trys to convince you that you are not sovereign over your own being is less than the highest truth. Get over it! What I mean is rise above any belief that makes you helpless to be who you are: the light of the One manifesting in this human experience. From this perspective,...http://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/Myth_of_Sexual_Addiction/192550I just want to make sure that no one gets the wrong idea that I am against AA or any 12 step programs. I am not. I am totally supportive of 12 step programs. Their biggest gift is their insight that separation from the divine is the root problem behind addictions. (my interpretation). I was...http://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/Myth_of_Sexual_Addiction/192065So back to my premise that additction is an outmoded myth. By myth, I certainly do not mean false. I mean it is a model of reality that we have accepted deep in our collective psyche. It is how we measure and relate to certain behaviours which we label bad or wrong. Try this. Suspend judgemnet...