<?xml version="1.0" encoding="utf-8" standalone="yes"?><rdf:RDF xmlns="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:sy="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/syndication/" xmlns:rdf="http://www.w3.org/1999/02/22-rdf-syntax-ns#"><channel rdf:about="http://www.blogit.com/Blogs/BlogRss.aspx/Melodystar6951"><title>My First Husband - Blogit</title><link>http://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/Melodystar6951/</link><description>Life sometimes is so unfair and sometimes I am glad to be alive to  touch other peoples lives. Maybe somone will learn from my mistakes. This is just one episode that made me leave my first husband.</description><sy:updatePeriod>hourly</sy:updatePeriod><sy:updateFrequency>1</sy:updateFrequency><sy:updateBase>2000-01-01T12:00+00:00</sy:updateBase><items><rdf:Seq><rdf:li resource="http://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/Melodystar6951/161814" /><rdf:li resource="http://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/Melodystar6951/152564" /></rdf:Seq></items></channel><item rdf:about="http://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/Melodystar6951/161814"><title>My Last Husband ( thoughts on children)</title><link>http://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/Melodystar6951/161814</link><description>I am questioning myself. I have made some decisions in my life with thinking them through. My now husband wants a child. I should have had children a long time ago but I had let my career take over. Now if I have a child it could mean my life, possibly. I am not sure of the percentage. Even if...</description></item><item rdf:about="http://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/Melodystar6951/152564"><title>My First Husband  But not my last!</title><link>http://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/Melodystar6951/152564</link><description>First I will tell you some backround on this episode. The first time I got married I was sixteen almost 17. I know way to young. I got married to simply get away from being abused at home by my stepfather and my husband to be was my very best friend. The one who I ran to when problems arose. I...</description></item></rdf:RDF>