<?xml version="1.0" encoding="utf-8" standalone="yes"?><rdf:RDF xmlns="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:sy="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/syndication/" xmlns:rdf="http://www.w3.org/1999/02/22-rdf-syntax-ns#"><channel rdf:about="https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/BlogRss.aspx/4bare"><title>My Sister, My Self - Blogit</title><link>https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/4bare/</link><description>These blogs are dedicated to my beloved sister. I know she would love reading these and she always encouraged me to write. These are stories about my family and my life.

To you, my sister and best friend. You are missed beyond words. The love you showed others has lived on. 
1959-2005

These blogs are on sisterhood and relationships with all people. Stories of uplifting, inspiring, open and honest tales of how interacting with others can change your life. Sometimes it can change your destiny.</description><sy:updatePeriod>hourly</sy:updatePeriod><sy:updateFrequency>1</sy:updateFrequency><sy:updateBase>2000-01-01T12:00+00:00</sy:updateBase><items><rdf:Seq><rdf:li resource="https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/4bare/557538" /><rdf:li resource="https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/4bare/555787" /><rdf:li resource="https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/4bare/553469" /><rdf:li resource="https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/4bare/553466" /><rdf:li resource="https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/4bare/462490" /><rdf:li resource="https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/4bare/458172" /><rdf:li resource="https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/4bare/457857" /><rdf:li resource="https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/4bare/457848" /></rdf:Seq></items></channel><item rdf:about="https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/4bare/557538"><title>Another Day In This Diverse Universe</title><link>https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/4bare/557538</link><description>Wow! I get another day on this planet. Such freedom to know that I can pick and chose what I am going to do today....or do I? I am at a dead end job, my income is getting cut in 1/2 in 10 months and I am tired of being single at 50. It's been a great 50 years or has it? My ex husband left me with...</description></item><item rdf:about="https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/4bare/555787"><title>Runaway On My Doorstep</title><link>https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/4bare/555787</link><description>It was just last weekend on July 4th that I was busy taking my time getting dressed and just enjoying the morning when I heard a knock on the door. I thought "company" not this early in the morning. I opened the door and there he stood. My sister's boy! My sister died three years ago and before...</description></item><item rdf:about="https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/4bare/553469"><title>I am back</title><link>https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/4bare/553469</link><description>I was on here about a year ago and I am finally back. I missed all of you and hope to catch up on all your writings. I will be posting some writings this week. Have a great day!</description></item><item rdf:about="https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/4bare/553466"><title>How to be Happy NOW!</title><link>https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/4bare/553466</link><description>I have suffered from depression all my life until now. What an amazing awakening when I realized I didn't have to be in the deep dark hole anymore. I am amazed how life looks when you see it differently. Don't get me wrong depression is very real. You can't just switch the flip that easy. It has...</description></item><item rdf:about="https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/4bare/462490"><title>For You Dear Sister</title><link>https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/4bare/462490</link><description>What a true example of a loving and selfless mom. This is the 3rd Mother's Day without you. You loved being a mom more than anything. We miss you so much. Your kids are happy. Jade has a boyfriend that I think she will marry. They seem very connected. Jack is graduating high school in June. I am...</description></item><item rdf:about="https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/4bare/458172"><title>The Cobwebs Inside My Soul</title><link>https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/4bare/458172</link><description>How many of you have cobwebs inside your soul? Those pesky webs that attach themselves to the inside of your dark edges. I know I have some cobwebs! They have been lurking around me my whole life. That old tired cobweb named depression is too thick to see through it. When I was three years old it...</description></item><item rdf:about="https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/4bare/457857"><title>Your Stuff or Your Character?</title><link>https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/4bare/457857</link><description>I walked in my sisters house after she died and saw her shoes and purse lying on the floor. It was like she was in a hurry to get in the house. I pictured her walking in and throwing off her shoes, setting her purse down and going over to the couch. They just stayed put while she died peacefully...</description></item><item rdf:about="https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/4bare/457848"><title>My Sister, My Self</title><link>https://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/4bare/457848</link><description>We are all on this planet for a reason. My reason was unknown to me until now. I have had a lot of heartache and depression in my life. We all have. Every sister has a story. We have been cheated on, lied to, betrayed, beaten down, raped and dismissed. We also have inspired others, been...</description></item></rdf:RDF>