Yes, it was difficult and painful to put out that fire, as it always is. Married or not, good or bad, it is a difficult thing to extinguish. That is why we have thousands if not millions of fireman to do the job. But my fire is still burning, it’s just that I am trying to stir it in a different direction. Not an easy task, but ultimately that fire will die, and there won’t be any ashes left behind. I was crying on a friend's shoulder. She declared that the best way to get over it is to move on.... Sign in to see full entry.