Some women are attracted to wise guys and need to temporarily lose themselves in romantic chaos. The commitment-obsessed call it destructive behavior - the less rigid call it melodrama. Regardless of the definition some women require an element of surprise and adventure to get an adrenalin rush. "There's something about him I find attractive," confessed Linda. "He's a balsero (rafter), simple and unpolished yet it's intriguing to meet a man who risked his life in the Florida straits to escape... Sign in to see full entry.