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Sunday, August 10, 2008

writing on Blogit: Comment and Critique

Although this is presented as a writer's site, it seems to me it is much more prevalently a social site, where relationships of various degrees of substance develop, and pseudorelationships are played at. There are a lot more strokes offered than actual critique, which makes it encouraging to write, but sometimes discouraging to comment. As a reasonably serious writer, I want to give useful feedback sometimes, and sometimes I do try, but more often, I feel like I am just playing a different game... Sign in to see full entry.

Saturday, August 9, 2008

If your heart is sore or weary, go here for a healing!

Or if you are into nature, cats, or just plain love! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=adYbFQFXG0U My daughter recommended this, and it brought the best sort of tears to my eyes! Sign in to see full entry.

Friday, August 8, 2008

Being good enough

There are so many great dog trainers! There's the Whisperer, Cesar Milan, and Victoria Stillwell, the dog dominatrix who probably leaves some of the humans wishing she would give them bits of chicken, too... There is Patricial McConell, the animal behaviorist who's book THE OTHER END OF THE LEASH I am in the middle of... They all have techniques that work to establish a proper chain of command between human and dog, stressing understanding of what it is to be the dog, the breed of dog, and your... Sign in to see full entry.

Responding to Kaboom

Kaboom has written a couple of very moving posts in her blog regarding the anniversaries of the nuclear bombing of Japan. http://www.blogit.com/Blogs/Blog.aspx/KaBooMuses/ My father was in the Pacific in WWII and was just weeks away from being part of the second wave of American soldiers onto the beaches of Japan, had the war continued much longer. He was in the radio corps. So his was very likely one of the lives that the lives of the people of Hiroshima and Nagasaki were traded for. I am here,... Sign in to see full entry.

Thursday, August 7, 2008

The difference between humans and animals...

It used to be easy: Man is more than an animal because he makes and uses tools; uses language; makes war on and hunts his own kind; reasons and remembers; laughs; loves; is motivated by altruism... In the past few decades we have come to know that not one of these things--not even several of them together are unique to human beings. In fact, they are not even unique to the higher primates. I've come to the tentative conclusion (all conclusions are essentially tentative...) that what makes us... Sign in to see full entry.

Monday, August 4, 2008

For Troosha

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Is this even possible?

A 'Family Tree' of Blogiteers? Who is related to whom, in the real-world...? Who's whose buddy? Special branches for the likes o' Kabu and Wiley... with curtains. Parentheses for those who get a regular mention by a blogger, but not themselves bloggering here... Nature of the relationship, color-coded...? I know! Let's get Ariala! Sign in to see full entry.

Friday, August 1, 2008

Here we go again...

It's an old story: We all have two beasts in our yard. One is angry and resentful, fearful, defensive, selfish, mean-spirited, prejudiced and judgemental, thoughtless of other's needs and feelings. The other is good-natured and loving, generous, patient and considerate, open-minded, optimistic, respectful and friendly. These two fight constantly for dominance. Which one will win? The one you feed. Blogit has these beasts in its yard, too. On Blogit here will always be the occasional fights and... Sign in to see full entry.

A word in your ears, Darlings!

There seems to be a new trend on Blogit, a trend towards extravagant endearments that are wholly unwarranted, coming in comments from other Blogiteers I barely know, and whom I know don't know me. I can't speak for anyone else, but I find it a bit off-putting. Sometimes more than a bit. Friendship in an online community is challenging enough without casual or meaningless suggestions of emotional attachment that might mislead, offend, or distress. There are a number of Blogiteers I do have a... Sign in to see full entry.

Wednesday, July 30, 2008

The story of the story--part 2

The young guy and I each wrote our characters, and mingled their stories together. It was great fun at times--we'd have brain-storming sessions and come up with some great ideas, and one notion always led to another and another... We each came up with other side characters--if you're reading what I've been posting, you haven't met too many of them yet, but they are coming... Two more will take on some of the story-telling in first person, too, in the second part of this first book. Some scenes... Sign in to see full entry.

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